For some people, returning close to the former lover is considered a thing in vain. That's because the assumption is only repeating the actual connection has failed.
If you're currently thinking of going back into the arms of ex-lovers, do not close the possibility of a relationship can actually be better.
There are three things which, according to Bethany Marshall, a relationship therapist and author of 'Deal Breakers', should be done so that 'relations between the two' no longer end up in separation.
Slow
If you and he are old enough not to make contact and then meet again, be sure to undergo the process of gradual approach. Everyone is changing, you and he needs time to adjust to each other changes.
"Try to see it as a new relationship, rather than continue a long relationship," said Bethany Marshall, Ph.D., as quoted from Cosmopolitan.com.
Maybe you want to quickly be in a comfortable relationship phase. But do not get time alone with him you can not stop asking yourself, "Why are you currently back with him?"
Be honest with yourself. If when you are with him constantly saying, "We need to talk." The sign, there is still a big doubt and he can not convince you. Do not get too close just to get rid of loneliness.
Complete the past
You and he certainly has a fundamental reason why the first can be separated. It is important to discuss the cause before re-committed to a love affair.
This is so you and he did not make the same mistake. Discuss clearly and thoroughly the cause of the failure of relationships past and find a solution.
Open a new sheet
Breakup may make you become more powerful and mature. "Every time we break up with someone, we learn how to have our own lives," said Marshall.
So, despite all efforts to heal the heartache after a breakup, such as skydiving, traveling or going out with someone else, make you have a new perspective of looking at something. This is according to Marshall is very good in terms of starting a new relationship, although to someone from the past.
If you're currently thinking of going back into the arms of ex-lovers, do not close the possibility of a relationship can actually be better.
There are three things which, according to Bethany Marshall, a relationship therapist and author of 'Deal Breakers', should be done so that 'relations between the two' no longer end up in separation.
Slow
If you and he are old enough not to make contact and then meet again, be sure to undergo the process of gradual approach. Everyone is changing, you and he needs time to adjust to each other changes.
"Try to see it as a new relationship, rather than continue a long relationship," said Bethany Marshall, Ph.D., as quoted from Cosmopolitan.com.
Maybe you want to quickly be in a comfortable relationship phase. But do not get time alone with him you can not stop asking yourself, "Why are you currently back with him?"
Be honest with yourself. If when you are with him constantly saying, "We need to talk." The sign, there is still a big doubt and he can not convince you. Do not get too close just to get rid of loneliness.
Complete the past
You and he certainly has a fundamental reason why the first can be separated. It is important to discuss the cause before re-committed to a love affair.
This is so you and he did not make the same mistake. Discuss clearly and thoroughly the cause of the failure of relationships past and find a solution.
Open a new sheet
Breakup may make you become more powerful and mature. "Every time we break up with someone, we learn how to have our own lives," said Marshall.
So, despite all efforts to heal the heartache after a breakup, such as skydiving, traveling or going out with someone else, make you have a new perspective of looking at something. This is according to Marshall is very good in terms of starting a new relationship, although to someone from the past.
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